Four ways in.
Three at a price. One just open.
reFrame reads what you’re about to send AND what you just received.
Across 15 relationships: partner, parent, teen, boss, co-parent, friend, ex, and the rest of the people who live on your phone.
With safety detection that catches the messages other tools miss.
Most communication tools work on the message. reFrame works on the pattern.
See what reFrame can see. Right now.
Paste a message you sent, or one you received. Three reFrames a day, ten a month, no questions asked. If it helps, the rest of the ladder is below.
Three plans. Go as deep as it’s worth.
Come in and stay. The work starts here.
Always $0, no expiration. Account required.
Become a MemberEverything in the open tool, plus
Settle in. Local is where the daily work fits.
Or $169.99/year (Save 29%). Billed monthly. Cancel anytime.
Everything in Member, plus
Move in. Home is the address for the season that needs everything.
Or $329.99/year (Save 31%). Billed monthly. Cancel anytime.
Everything in Local, plus
Not sure? Try the message tool first and upgrade the moment you hit a wall. No pressure, no lock-in.
A note on Home and outgrowing reFrame.
Homeisn’t a forever address. The point of reFrame has always been that you won’t need it. Home is where you live while the work is hardest. When the season ends, and it does, Local or Memberis waiting. Or the door, if it’s time.
One reFrame at a time
Not ready to subscribe? Or you just need one? Buy a single reFrame. No expiration, no commitment.
Situation reFrame
$5.99
The pattern in one moment. Paste what happened. Get the dynamic, the cycle, and three reframes you can actually use.
Conversation reFrame
$14.99
The pattern in the whole relationship. Paste up to 15 screenshots. Get the named dynamic, the regulation arc for both people, and the moments where repair was possible and got missed.
Situation reads the moment. Conversation reads the relationship.
Full refund before you use it. After it runs, the credit is consumed.
The things we’d never charge for.
Nothing stored by default.
Your messages aren't saved unless you ask us to. The open tool stores nothing at all. We don't sell anything to anyone.
Safety before any AI.
Crisis language is caught by deterministic checks in under 100ms, on every plan, no exceptions. The detection that matters most never waits on a chatbot.
Cancel in two clicks.
No retention maze, no guilt screens. Downgrade or leave whenever. Our whole point is to make ourselves unnecessary.
Before you decide.
Yes. Become a Member with an account and there's no cost, no expiration. The Member tier gives you fifteen Message reFrames a month plus the practice exercises and the Mirror dashboard. We don't run trials. We don't ask for a card. You stay until you don't need us, which is the point.
The first one’s on us.
Paste the message that’s been sitting in your chest. See the pattern. Decide the rest later.
Become a Member· $0/monthOver time you won’t need us, but we’ll always be here when you do.